How to Make a Guy Fall in Love with You

Are you shy? Do you have a hard time figuring out the right time to talk to the guy you’re interested in? Maybe you just want to know how to keep your man interested without using too many words. There are several ways to attract a guy and keep him interested in you without talking. Body language is a huge part of flirting and knowing how to use it correctly can make a huge difference when trying to get someone to notice and fall in love with you.

Something as simple as a smile, can grab a guy’s attention and make him take notice. Smiling also helps make a guy feel more comfortable approaching you. If you smile at everyone, you have to figure out a way to make your smile a little different when directed at him… Maybe add a wink or toss of your hair.

There are times that we don’t have much time to get that guy to fall in love. Maybe you’re leaving your job and only have a few days to get that cute coworker to fall head over heels. Maybe the school year is almost over or he’s going on vacation and you want to make sure you’re the one he’s thinking of while he’s gone. Maybe he’s an amazing catch and you don’t want him on the market too long.

In order to get things moving along, you’ll have to take initiative and bold steps like positioning yourself in places where he has to run into you or finding excuses to approach him and ask personal questions like, “what are you up to tonight”, “what are you doing for lunch”, “plans for the weekend”. In some cases you may have to take a much more direct approach to get the ball moving, like asking him out! If you don’t take a chance you might miss an opportunity.

In the digital world where online dating is the norm, it is more and more important to make sure you know how to communicate effectively through email and text messages. Things can be interpreted the wrong way if you aren’t clear. Using emojis can really help convey that you’re flirting. A smiley, kissy face, or wink can go a long way in letting him know you’re interested.

Sometimes it’s easier to flirt over text and it is a great way to get on a guys radar, keep you on his mind, and help him build the confidence to approach you. A simple ‘good morning’ with a smiley face is a good way to let him know you’re thinking of him. The best practice is to keep messages short and sweet to open the door for him to pursue you.

There are times in life where the one we love has grown distant, broken up with you, or just disappeared. These situations are tricky and can really depend on the circumstances. But if you just can’t let him go and want to try to get him back, here are a few tips. As mentioned previously, you may be coming on too strong and you need to back off and play hard to get. If he doesn’t hear from you in awhile, chances are he’ll reach out to see what’s going on. When a guy realizes that he isn’t your top priority anymore, if he’s interested at all, he’ll take note and try to correct it. Living your life, looking amazing and happy every time you see him, and being unavailable are surefire ways to get his attention.

Sometimes a guy just needs a little space. The best thing to do is give it to him, if he really is yours, he’ll come back. You can sporadically and sparingly send short texts to make sure he doesn’t forget about you, but they need to be very casual and light. ‘Just checking in to see how you’re doing’ or ‘Saw this and thought of you’ etc. It can be very helpful to get some insight into what went wrong and if continuing to try to get him back is worth it from a psychic advisor.

Getting a guy’s attention is only the first step. Most of us are looking for a love that lasts forever, a true soulmate. Some people believe in fate and that your one and only will suddenly appear and instantly want to marry you and live happily ever after. Unfortunately, this is not usually how true love works. It takes time and commitment and a process to get a guy to fall in love with you forever. Luckily there are a few things you can do to ensure that his love is enduring.

Men need to feel needed, in a world of independent women men can start to feel insecure about their place and their value, even if you can do it yourself, sometimes it’s better to ask him pretty please and let him teach you something or help you change that lightbulb that you couldn’t possibly reach without him, and don’t forget the praise afterward. Appreciation is key, a little praise for taking out the garbage will make him feel on top of the world, it may seem silly but it works. Another thing we’ve touched on before, is to keep having a life separate from him - friends, hobbies, working out - will keep him on his toes with a small thought in the back of his mind that he could lose you. On last thing is to add value to his life and focus on what you can do for him, instead of what you expect from him. Most relationships end because of unrealistic expectations. It’s not to say that you shouldn’t express your needs, just make sure you balance it with making sure his needs are met. When you shift the focus, you’ll see that he’ll want to make you happy in return. Keep your relationship fun and exciting and he’ll be yours forever.