To know where we’re going, we have to know where we’ve been. It’s your job, as an advisor, to answer the concerns and dilemmas of your client, and that begins with understanding their current state. To establish this you can start by asking some simple questions that are related to the issue.
For example, you have a client named Emma, and her dilemma is about her ex-husband Ben. She wants to know if they’ll get back together, here are some questions you can start with:
- What do you feel could have been different in your relationship with your ex-husband?
- What would bring you more satisfaction in a future relationship?
- What 5 things would you change about your own actions in your next relationship?
To delve deeper into the brainstorming stage with your client, and to fully grasp where their struggle is coming from, you can use the following spiritual tools:
- Open Tarot Cards for each of the ideas
- Meditate on the issue to get to the heart of things
- Consult your spirit guides
With these questions answered by both the client and the spiritual guides, you’ll have meaningful information that will help you guide your client in creating goals and benchmarks.